Times

if you ever need any encouragement throughout your day, i would strongly recommend listening to tenth avenue north, their song called "times" is probably the most encouraging song, about forgiveness and God's divine love for us. just thought i would put my favorite lyrics out there ...

I hear You say,

"My love is over. It's underneath.
It's inside. It's in between.
The times you doubt Me, when you can't feel.
The times that you question, 'Is this for real? '
The times you're broken.
The times that you mend.
The times that you hate Me, and the times that you bend.
Well, My love is over, it's underneath.
It's inside, it's in between.
These times you're healing, and when your heart breaks.
The times that you feel like you're falling from grace.
The times you're hurting.
The times that you heal.
The times you go hungry, and are tempted to steal.
The times of confusion, in chaos and pain.
I'm there in your sorrow, under the weight of your shame.
I'm there through your heartache.
I'm there in the storm.
My love I will keep you, by My pow'r alone.
I don't care where you fall, where you have been.
I'll never forsake you, My love never ends.
It never ends."

- tenth avenue north's "times"

by the way everyone, the road to my weight loss has been a little difficult, but im making some progress,i never realized how much i've been eating, not to mention how BAD ive been eating, its kind of scary to think about, im doing this to not only boost my confidence and to look better to myself and others but to restore my health and hopefully not have any asthma issues anymore, so please keep praying for me. i appreciate each and every one of them :)

love, me

comfort

2 consolation for grief or anxiety : a few words of comfort.• reassurance : they should take comfort that help is available.• [in sing. ] a person or thing that gives consolation : his friendship was a great

This past week i decided that i wanted to go to my friends college small group, i have been trying out different groups to see which one i mesh with the best and i decided that i really enjoy going to both my friends group and a group that i have out in surprise. I have had a lot of extra junk in my life these past couple of weeks so going to my friends group was like a release for me, i walked through the doors of her church and instantly felt comfort and warmth, her friends came up to me to talk to me and made me feel really welcome, then worship began, i sat with my friend which by the way she is a shining example of a follower of christ, the lights dimmed and the music began, im always a huge fan of worship music but that night for some reason i had been angry because of all the junk that was still on my shoulders from the past few months, i continue to dwell on what has happened to me, i looked around the room and saw people raising their hands as they felt the holy spirit move through them, it was so beautiful, at that moment i bowed my head and said a little prayer to myself asking God to come in and move me, to use me in some way, not even a few minutes later i completley felt God inside of me, which is always such a powerful feeling, and i began to sob, i felt surrender, comfort and love all around me, later into the worship session the group in the room came together in a circle and joined hands, at that point i felt such a deep connection in the room, we were all intimate with eachother and said prayers for everyone, at the end of everything people i had not even talked to came up to me and hugged me, they told me they were glad that i came, so was i. later that night around midnight or so, i needed my friends to lead me to the freeway so i could get home, but i needed gas, so we stopped by a gas station and it was just us and another woman parked at a pump, i tried using my debit card but it wouldint work so i tried to ask the cashier if he would help me, but he was closing, i heard the woman scrambling out of her car asking if he was open because she needed to pay her last couple of dollars for gas so she could get home. she looked like she was on drugs and she asked me if she broke down on her way to the next gas station if i would come pick her up i thought "yeah okay you crazy woman, i dont want to help you, youre too weird" but as i got back to my car i heard her weeping and i heard Gods still small voice telling me "what you've done unto the least of these, you've done unto me" so i filled her tank, it turns out that day was her birthday and she has been going through a rough divorce and a custody battle with her kids and her water had been shut off at her house, she began to hyperventilate saying how grateful she was, and we talked for a while, what was so rewarding for me was that i gave her comfort, i was a small light in her dark day just knowing i helped someone made me feel really good.i was simply giving back. i remember 2 months ago i was sitting outside of my grandpas work waiting for him to get off and i began to dwell on my family situation and i sobbed for a good thirty minutes, in that time people would walk by me and just stare but one woman named mary, ill never forget her name, came up to me and just talked with me, she was a comfort, a light in my dark life. i know that night when i helped julie at the gas station that i did the same thing for her what mary did for me.

"The King will answer them, 'Most certainly I tell you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.'- Matt. 25:40

oh and by the way everyone, im starting my diet today, im not using a scale or anything, afterall weight is only a number right? ill be posting pictures along with my posts to show you my progress. wish me luck! love, me

booooo

comfort

2 consolation for grief or anxiety : a few words of comfort.• reassurance : they should take comfort that help is available.• [in sing. ] a person or thing that gives consolation : his friendship was a great This past week i decided that i wanted to go to my friends college small group, i have been trying out different groups to see which one i mesh with the best and i decided that i really enjoy going to both my friends group and a group that i have out in surprise. I have had a lot of extra junk in my life these past couple of weeks so going to my friends group was like a release for me, i walked through the doors of her church and instantly felt comfort and warmth, her friends came up to me to talk to me and made me feel really welcome, then worship began, i sat with my friend which by the way she is a shining example of a follower of christ, the lights dimmed and the music began, im always a huge fan of worship music but that night for some reason i had been angry because of all the junk that was still on my shoulders from the past few months, i continue to dwell on what has happened to me, i looked around the room and saw people raising their hands as they felt the holy spirit move through them, it was so beautiful, at that moment i bowed my head and said a little prayer to myself asking God to come in and move me, to use me in some way, not even a few minutes later i completley felt God inside of me, which is always such a powerful feeling, and i began to sob, i felt surrender, comfort and love all around me, later into the worship session the group in the room came together in a circle and joined hands, at that point i felt such a deep connection in the room, we were all intimate with eachother and said prayers for everyone, at the end of everything people i had not even talked to came up to me and hugged me, they told me they were glad that i came, so was i. later that night around midnight or so, i needed my friends to lead me to the freeway so i could get home, but i needed gas, so we stopped by a gas station and it was just us and another woman parked at a pump, i tried using my debit card but it wouldint work so i tried to ask the cashier if he would help me, but he was closing, i heard the woman scrambling out of her car asking if he was open because she needed to pay her last couple of dollars for gas so she could get home. she looked like she was on drugs and she asked me if she broke down on her way to the next gas station if i would come pick her up i thought "yeah okay you crazy woman, i dont want to help you, youre too weird" but as i got back to my car i heard her weeping and i heard Gods still small voice telling me "what you've done unto the least of these, you've done unto me" so i filled her tank, it turns out that day was her birthday and she has been going through a rough divorce and a custody battle with her kids and her water had been shut off at her house, she began to hyperventilate saying how grateful she was, and we talked for a while, what was so rewarding for me was that i gave her comfort, i was a small light in her dark day just knowing i helped someone made me feel really good.i was simply giving back. i remember 2 months ago i was sitting outside of my grandpas work waiting for him to get off and i began to dwell on my family situation and i sobbed for a good thirty minutes, in that time people would walk by me and just stare but one woman named mary, ill never forget her name, came up to me and just talked with me, she was a comfort, a light in my dark life. i know that night when i helped julie at the gas station that i did the same thing for her what mary did for me."The King will answer them, 'Most certainly I tell you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.'- Matt. 25:40oh and by the way everyone, im starting my diet today, im not using a scale or anything, afterall weight is only a number right? ill be posting pictures along with my posts to show you my progress. wish me luck! love, me

damage

Alright i know i haven't written in a while. as usual, a lot is going on in my life. getting my driving situation figured out, job hunting, family time, planning my graduation party, getting my college situation figured out, i love being busy but there is so much!

this post i guess is more about me reflecting on where I'm at in life right now, I'm still trying to figure out more of who i am, i don't think any of us will ever stop trying to find ourselves, there will always be something new we will learn about ourselves, that's the beauty of life i guess, were always changing, wouldn't life be so boring if we stayed the same all the time? i know i personally don't like change but i force myself to adapt quickly to new things. well getting back on track here, I've kind of been focusing on different things lately with myself and theres one thing that i cant seem to get my mind off of. as you all know i had been talking about my ex and how he basically broke me down completely and left me totally damaged. I've been telling myself that I'm okay with being single, which i am for right now but I've had guys that have asked me out on dates ever since we broke up and i find myself backing away from guys that are attracted to me and basically the whole dating scene in general, but i feel like its like a new fear i have now, i don't want to date because I'm so scared I'm going to go through what i went through 2 months ago, there was so much indescribable hurt in that situation, and I'm just afraid i wont be able to fall in love again someday, and that's what i long for so much, i want to fall so deeply in love, get married and possibly have a baby, live that "fairytale" life. i just strongly feel that God would not create me to long so much for love to not let those things happen for me someday, i just pray that my heart can be healed one day and that i will attract the most amazing man ever. i guess this post isn't about me giving advice but i want to reverse the role this time, if you guys could tell me what you think and maybe say a prayer or two for me that would mean so much to me.

love, me

A new chapter

So this last month has been pretty hectic for me to say the least, and I've had a lot on my mind, these past few months have had their trials, and I truly believe that I have been finding things to fill the big gaping hole inside of me i think a few weeks ago i had finally hit rock bottom, after everything came crashing down on me all at once i guess i was just having a "recovery" time to myself, i didn't want to talk to anyone, i had so much hate inside of me towards myself and towards other people. As a result from all of these emotions i think i had become a little depressed and gained some weight, of course ive been thinking about losing weight for a while but the other day i was looking at myself in the mirror and found all of the reasons why people told me i look unhealthy, im breaking out, i have dark circles in my eyes, my lips have scabs on them from nervously biting them and i just looked into my eyes and saw the same girl before i got sent to my program, i was talking to my mom the other day and we were talking about my phobias and my biggest phobia is being stuck at home alone all day and my mom told me that she thinks the reason why i hate being by myself is because i dont like who i am inside, thats when i think i realized ive been trying too hard to find myself and i think my mom made a good point so now im just going to take things slow with myself and live in the present, along with me saying that i feel unhealthy ive decided to make this blog a weight loss log also. I will be posting pictures and talking about my journey with you guys, i havent weighed myself in over a year, and to be frank im kind of scared to see how much i weigh right now so my mom will be writing down my weight monthly, my goal right now will be to lose 50 pounds, i want to feel good about myself and feel healthy and i think writing this for everyone to see will be more of a motivation to not give up. my uncle drew told me once that God wants us to throw our old selves away and give our new selves to him completley! thats what im trying to do right now, this is going to be sooo hard but i can do it! wish me luck :)

Love

We all seem to have our own idea of "Love" set in our minds don't we? I know I do, I guess I could call myself a hopeless romantic. I really think that a lot of us women go see romantic movies and like to tell ourselves that what we see in those movies is real, sorry people, but "The Notebook" is NOT very realistic, I would know for myself. I have been with a couple guys where I would hope that our relationship would turn out just like it would in a movie, there was one guy where i thought i was his world, he was mine, and i thought he would do anything for me, we would fall in love and everything would be perfect, i thought i had waited so long and went through so many different guys to get to this amazing, funny, caring, attractive guy. that he was "the one". apparently in his eyes he didn't view me in the same way. and i had my heart broken completely, i feel like it was the ultimate let down, no feeling could ever compare to this. But at the same time, i guess i am pretty thankful for everything i've been going through and what i've already gone through because i'm learning a lot and i'm gaining a lot of wisdom through it all and hopefully i can share my testimony with girls that will go through what i'm going through right now. I have complete faith that my heavenly father is going to send me someone so amazing, someone who is going to blow my mind completely and make me wonder to myself, "Why did he choose me?" I just know that God could not have made me to long for love and marriage so badly to not let me have those things one day, but I know right now I just need to focus on myself, figure out who i am and love myself before i can have both of those things, and it's going to be so hard to find myself because unfortunately, our world is full of so much hurt and there are so many distractions that can get in the way of that journey, we just need to learn how to cope with it, and the best way to do that is to take a journey deep into Gods word and let him guide you completely, it's not easy at all, because i'm trying to do this with myself right now, but i feel like i'm trying too hard to find myself and to love myself when i think i just need to give myself some time. i know i can do it and ill be there eventually. i just wanted to thank everyone who has been keeping up with me and keeping me in your prayers, they mean the world to me and its helping me more than you know, i can really feel God moving through me and speaking to me through everything going on in my hectic life right now. love you guys

Quiet

Isn’t it hard for us to stop our busy lives for a while to just sit in silence and be still? We live in a world where it is always go go go, constantly being busy, when you’re done with one task it’s on to the next one. a lot of us seem to have that lifestyle, if were not always on the go, we start to feel uncomfortable. I know for myself that I feel the need to always get out, go do this go do that, I always think, “oh I wish I was here right now doing this.” when i get to the place I’m so anxious to get to, I get anxious to go to the next place, I never want to be home. Just recently I started reading the bible again and I remember when I attended Julian Youth Academy, every single morning we would go into the dining room and we would open our bibles to a psalm one day and then proverbs the next day and we would switch back and fourth everyday. I remember we would never have music on during our reading time, and no one was allowed to talk. Right now im trying to start doing that again, every morning I made a goal for myself to sit in silence for 10 minutes a day and I read 1 psalm, It starts my day on a positive note, and gives me a little bit of peace throughout my day, when I struggle with something, I think back to the Psalm I read that morning and it comforts me. We all need a little bit of silence every day to ourselves and God, it keeps us sane. Our God is a God of peace so when you feel weary or tired, take some time out of your crazy hectic day and sit, be still and listen to the Lord

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened , and I will give you rest.

Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart,

and you will find rest for your souls.

For my yoke is easy and my burden is light”- Matthew 11:28-30